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Internal Experiences Assessment

For each statement, select the response from the dropdown that best reflects how often it applies to your experience.


Never — This does not occur for you

Rarely — This occurs infrequently

Sometimes — This occurs occasionally

Often — This occurs regularly

Very Often — This occurs frequently or consistently


How frequently do you experience the following thoughts, feelings, or actions?

I believe I can care for my own needs.
I am afraid that people I care about may abandon me.
I experience urges to engage in behaviors that are harmful to me.
I often feel watchful or defensive.
I sometimes feel detached, as though I am observing myself from the outside.
I often feel vulnerable and unable to cope.
I become angry and lose control of my temper.
I dwell critically on things I have said or done.
During times of intense sadness or distress, I find some comfort in knowing suicide is an option.
I feel lively, happy, and full of energy.
I worry that people may reject me if I do not help or please them.
When I have urges to do something unhealthy, I stop to consider the possible outcomes.
I believe it is better to avoid getting too close to others.
I often feel separate from my physical self.
I often feel as though something is wrong with me emotionally.
I see my anger as something that keeps me safe from others.
I allow myself permission to make mistakes without harsh judgment.
I have thoughts about wanting to die.
When I become upset, I am able to soothe myself in constructive ways.
I try to figure out what others want from me so they will not become upset.
I act on impulse in ways that later create problems for me.
Trusting other people does not come easily to me.
I often feel mentally cloudy or unfocused.
I often feel emotionally wounded or down.
I struggle to manage my anger.
I judge myself very harshly.
When I am distressed, I have urges to injure myself.
I believe I can face difficulties with strength and bravery.
Rejection from someone important to me feels devastating.
I engage in behaviors I do not truly want to do, yet I feel unable to stop.
I keep my expectations of others low to protect myself from disappointment.
Under stress, I tend to feel detached or mentally absent.
I often feel discouraged and without hope.
I frequently feel annoyed, irritated, or angry.
Even when I am doing well, I feel it is still not enough.
I intentionally hurt myself to take attention away from emotional pain.
I trust my ability to handle whatever challenges arise.
If someone close to me leaves, I believe I will still be okay.
When I feel sad or distressed, I try to feel better through things like substances, sex, food, or spending.pdown
I believe that relaxing my defenses will put me at risk.
I feel connected to and aware of my body.
I feel as though I am coming undone.
I respond to my mistakes with kindness rather than harshness.
I feel unable to stop myself from self-harming.
I feel positive and hopeful about the future.
The thought of a breakup or separation makes me feel uneasy.
I try to avoid feeling hopeful so I will not be disappointed.
Emotional or physical pain can feel more than I can handle.
I speak to myself in a critical way.
I believe I am capable of achieving what I set out to do.
I feel panicked when someone important to me seems like they may leave.
Strong emotional experiences feel difficult for me to tolerate.
I often feel powerless and lacking strength.
When something painful happens, I am able to comfort myself.
I often feel alone and cut off from others.
At my core, I feel that something is fundamentally wrong with me.
I experience a feeling of calm within myself.

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